21.10.07

Mari and Simon's Wedding, Sept. 8, 2007

Marriage, here I come! Laurel and I on our way to the wedding.

Ceremony led by Mark Peterson, a good, close family friend.

First kiss!

Just married and SO happy!

Daniel, our best man and Laurel, our maid of honor with sweet words for the toast.

The Hirabayashi, Kennedy, Sato, Shigaki and Hart families.

The Hirabayashi, Kennedy, Kloster, Shiogi and Boscolo families!

Wedding cake, from New Zealand.

Smoochin on the deck, enjoying our union.

After party! My girl, Laurel with me and my new family!

Auntie Anne, Mum Margaret, and Mom Nancy hand stamped and ready to party!

Melissa, Kristine and CJ...

Singin and groovin...!

Daniel, Adrian and Mum dancin' the night away... with such delight!

Wedded bliss!

Life after travel was full of transition, planning, road trips, fun and constant motion it seems. After returning from our travels in Asia, we jumped into summer in Seattle with both feet. My step-brother Tyler married a wonderful woman named Marcy in Winthrop, WA and it was beautiful. Then, my cousin Alissa married Curtis who is hillariously funny, smart and will be a great husband! As our family grew bigger, I proposed to Simon on the shores of Lake Washington. He happily agreed and we began planning our wedding that took place 6 weeks later.

I consider myself to be a bit of a procrastinator, but with only 6 weeks to plan means no time for being wishy washy. We quickly put our wedding together and I depended on a few previous skills developed as an event planner. We also enjoyed a few weeks in California and Nevada to celebrate Simon's first road trip in the US. We drove to Northern California to pick up Daniel, Simon's brother in San Francisco, visit friends and see a bit of the city, then meet up with our larger group to pick up RV's and caravan to the Nevada desert for Burning Man. (Pictures coming soon! :))

Burning Man, is a huge art and community event that takes place in the desert of Nevada. Our camp, Camp Baggage Check (which checks people's emotional baggage then burns it at the end of the week), built a 30 ft. geodesic dome and we camped in the heat, strong winds and light rain for the week. Bring the kiwi brothers to the playa was great fun and we enjoyed a week of discovery, bike rides, dancing, art, community, people, friends (old and new) and an escape from the regular life we've grown accustomed to on a daily basis. It's difficult to explain what Burning Man "feels" like, but imagine a city with overe 35,000 people, where capitalism doesn't exist (and money can only be used to buy coffee and ice), people's creativity, motivation and initiative go far beyond the imagination and where your mind can explore an energy that is unique and beautiful. This was my 5th year and each time I participate, the feeling and the change within myself is different. It was a gift to be a part of Simon and Daniel's first burn.

After Burning Man, we drove back to Seattle for our last week of planning and family before the wedding. Returning to life after Burning Man, plus meeting Simon's family, as well as returning to work and tying up any lose ends before our wedding was busy and at times chaotic, but still fun and exciting. Simon's Mum, Margaret, his auntie, Ann and cousin, Trudi, all arrived the week prior to our wedding and helped us so much. Kiwis don't like to sit around and they were constantly asking to help with projects, errands, etc. It was a lot of fun and my family loved having such a full and bustling home.

The wedding took place in West Seattle at Mark and Debbie Peterson's home. Mark and Debbie are best friends with my mother and my brother and I grew up with their children. Mark officiated our wedding and to have such a special person in my life marry me and Simon was truly a gift. The wedding took place on their patio deck, overlooking the Puget Sound just a few moments before the sun set. The short reception following took place in their backyard and the entire area twinkled with lights, as our close friends and family dined on delectable treats catered by my friend, William. We enjoyed sushi, Thai spring rolls, tandoori chicken, potato pancakes, and other yummy treats. Mum brought a wedding cake from New Zealand and it was similar to our version of a fruit cake, but even more delicious from what I understand. She also brought flowers made of frosting as a decoration. Additionally, Simon made a gluten-free, orange almond cakes with different kinds of frostings.

After the reception, we went to an after-party in Capitol Hill. Our friends Melissa, Adrian and Kristine hosted a private party, where we danced the night away to house music with friends. The entire day was really special and just flew by. I feel so blessed to have shared our special day with so many friends and family members. I truly feel that a supportive and caring community surrounded us with love and gave us so much help and energy that carried us through our special day.

22.6.07

Oh my blog update! Let's travel back in time... to... Laos!

Yes, it's lame. I haven't updated this blog in so long it's a little embarassing... But, there's a reason why: I got married!! Simon and I tied the knot a few weeks ago and for most of this summer, life has just been nutty, crazy and so fun! More about the summer and marriage soon...

But, thinking back a few months. I left Nepal and...

After Kathmandu, I met up with Simon in Bangkok and we traveled to Laos for a few weeks of relaxing by the Mekong river, enjoying delicious foods (the food shares similar tastes to Vietnamese and Thai cuisine-mint, curry, chili, coconut, but with sticky rice that you form into little balls and dip into dishes..yum. I digress...) and just chillin' in the sun (and some rain, as it's monsoon season). The country has been beaten up over the years from all kinds of forces: wars and governments, however, the people that I encountered were LOVELY. All so kind, humble, full of smiles and generosity.

Additionally, much of the land is uninhabited by people and is full of lush greenery, limestone rocks, water and pure beauty. Apparently, 21% of the land was declared as National Biodiversity Conservation Area to prevent deforestation and wildlife hunting.

In Dhon Det, which is in the south, we spent some time with some excellent friends and met new people too. Our days were very relaxed and full of bike rides, reading, hammock lounging, occassionally going into "town" for a quick e-mail check-in (which was more expensive then most other Asian locations because the entire island's electricity is run on generators) or to buy supplies, like candles for the nights, which created a romantic ambiance as well as attracted the millions of flying termites. Ah, nature.

We ventured north to Vang Vieng, which is a fun town, generally known for it's tubing. Tubing costs $4 to rent an inner tube and a truck takes you up part of the Mekong river. You hop in and along the way there are "rapids", which at the time were little bumpy waves and often rocks involved, but it wasn't a problem for me. The water was pretty shallow to begin with, but it was challenging, as I saw a woman stuck in tall grasses after the "rapids" pushed her out of control, or something.

Then, along the river there are bars with huge swings above the river. The bar men shout "Beer Laos" over and over again ("beerlaobeerlaobeerlao, etc.") you give a smile and a wave and they pull you over with a bamboo pole and in you go. These swings are amazing. Naturally, the first swing was intimidating, but exciting as you climb a fairly sturdy, somewhat rickety ladder to a platform, where another worker pulls the swing over and you fly away. It's really exhilarating and feels as if you are a trapeze performer, flying through the air. Of course, landing without belly flopping is preferred. At the first bar, some foreigners were doing naked swings and it was hillarious! The Laos people were highly entertained by the drunk, tattooed guys who continually swung naked. We had met up with a group of travelers in Dhon Det and we saw them again in Vang Vieng. They were a funny bunch from Australia, England, New Zealand and it was fun to travel with them again.

At one swing, the ladder was really tall and my friend had just given herself a massive black eye by trying to flip off the swing and kneeing her eye on the way down. Ouchie. While I am thinking of my elegant swinging and twirling moves, while carefully navigating myself up this seemingly stable ladder (although I heard the entire swing fell over a few days prior), I am deep in thought. I finally get to the top of the ladder and the Laos man "operating" the swing looks deep into my eyes and asks me "you know how swim?" Yes, it's true that I arrived to that same bar by tube, on the river and in a bathing suit no less, but many Asians don't know how to swim at all, so I guess it's fair that he ask, he's just doing his job. I quickly answered "of course!", then did an extra swingy, twirly swing ride with a magical-no-belly-flop drop into the water. Swim? Boy, just watch me!

While in Vang Vieng, we also spent a day rock climbing on limestone casts. It had been over a year since I had been rock climbing, while Simon had been climbing for most of the last month in Laos, but it all came back to me, thankfully. Our guides were these funny, cheery men, who were talented and helpful. We met other travelers during our climbing day and the physical activity, made me sore for two days. What a wimp, I am!

We spent nearly a week in Vang Vieng and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves with all of the activities available, or doing nothing at all, which we became VERY good at... All over the town were little restaurants complete with comfy lounge tables, oodles of pillows, delicious menus and TV constantly running, all day and night. Our favorite was the Simpsons bar, where reruns of the show played non-stop with yummy food and shakes.For many dinners we visited a restaurant that played bootleg versions of new movies, so we saw the latest "Pirates of the Carribean" movie the same week it came out!

Our travels ended with yet another night train trip back to Bangkok. I strategically planned our last week in SE Asia so we could visit the Chatuchak markets, which offers the BEST shopping I have ever encountered! Over 15, 000 stalls in one day... so many fantastically cheap, cute and excellent shopping morsels and so little time. *sigh* Simon actually outshopped me, as my tired weary feet dragged my hungry body around the markets, following him, wondering when he was going to shop, as he bustled by me (with our extra large bag of goodies and gifts) saying "Just one more pair of shoes, then I'll be done... I think...."

Other Hope and Home volunteers: Erik, me, Keirra and Charlie (laying gracefully on our laps)

With Gita and Pema, two of the girls I taught English to on a daily basis. Their hearts are so full of love and joy!

Thanks Coby, Angela and Reagan! The scarves you made are gorgeous!

Scarves! All of the new DRC children with the handmade scarves I brought, made with some help from friends. :)

Me with Dhan Badajur Bhajel, one of the brightest, most fun children I played with daily at the DRC.

Me with Surendra, the best Nepali bargainer, I have EVER encountered.

Rose, a DRC advisor and one of my most favorite volunteers with Pema.

Beautiful new backpacks. Thanks, Kai!

Resting after a long afternoon of shopping, check out the new backpacks, hats, shirts, etc. Thanks Grandma!

Toothbrushes and new toothpaste. Thanks, Christine!

Soccer fun! That ball endured being kicked with crutches, hit by rocks, etc. It's durability is excellent.

After a big walk to town and some bargaining, a new soccer ball for the kids. Thanks, Kai!

New shoes and socks for so many, thanks Grandma and Scott!

Aaniska's knitting creation! She is a fast knitter, this just took her an hour or so and she only has one arm. Amazing!

Knitting goodies! Thanks, Sari and Briana!

Sticker fun! Thanks, Mom!

Dhan Badajur Bhajel, Anisha and Gita during our English lessons. Thanks for the flashcards, Mom!